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Are you looking for something off the beaten path of Canon in D and the Wedding March for your wedding ceremony music? If you’re a little bit nontraditional in your wedding plans, you’ve come to the right place for pop wedding song inspiration.

Pop Songs to Inspire Your Wedding Playlist

Instead of a limited list of classical music, with maybe a Beatles tune here and there, we currently have over 500 custom arrangements of everything from Elvis to Lady Gaga. The best part is that every year our song list grows. You can check out our current repertoire right here on our website. I love saying “sure!” when people come up with all kinds of creative ideas for their wedding music. Yes, we can even arrange Rap and R&B. It just takes a little bit of creativity. . . but we’re musicians and creativity goes with the territory.

Top Wedding Songs in 2018: the Frontrunners

People love an amazing diversity of musical styles but there also seem to be certain songs and musical artists that rise to the top and this year, his name is Mr. Ed Sheeran.

If you’re one of those savvy couples who has chosen Ed Sheeran’s November hit, “Perfect,” for your ceremony processional, I just want to say “Well done!” The music has such a strong melody and that’s one of the key things that determine a great instrumental version of a popular song.

What’s more Ed Sheeran has a reputation for being a bit of a wedding crasher himself. If you haven’t already heard the heartwarming story of his surprise performance for an Australian couple’s first dance in 2016, you can read the story on InStyle‘s website.

If you haven’t checked out Sheeran’s video, grab some kleenexes and settle in.

Coming in at a close second for two years straight is the gorgeous ballad “A Thousand Years,” by Christina Perri from the motion picture, “Twilight.”

Perri’s voice is so haunting and vulnerable. Our arrangement puts a big spotlight on the cello. The rich tones really lend to the haunting melody. I’ve arranged this piece for not only our string trio and string quartet but also our acoustic ensembles with guitar, piano, violin and bass.

Don’t Forget Your Wedding Recessional!

I’m really in love with Katy Perry’s Chained to the Rhythm right now. This song is going to be so awesome with string quartet. I know it might be hard to picture when you’re watching Perry in those awesome Gogo boots and hearing the groovy bass, but it definitely lends itself well to strings.

A second song that is just so fantastic is Maroon Five’s “Sugar.” If you haven’t checked out this video, take a break from your seating charts and check it out. These guys drove all over LA crashing weddings. I wish they would crash a wedding we were performing at!

What about you? What is your perfect wedding music? If you’re having live music at your wedding ceremony, have you chosen your songs yet? If you are still thinking about adding the beauty and energy of live strings to your wedding ceremony, contact us to talk about your special day! We would love to help you out.

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Need some more inspiration? Check out this article on WeddingWire to give you even more ideas for your perfect wedding songs!

String Quartet Wedding Songs for Your Oregon Wedding

Wedding Songs are Stunning With a String Quartet

A string quartet is what many people imagine when they picture wedding songs performed live at a ceremony. Maybe it dates back to all of the movies where the string quartet is frantically playing the Wedding March while the bride and groom run into some sort of problem that is thwarting their efforts to tie the knot. Maybe it’s the fact that kings and queens would hire court musicians to perform for their special events back in the day when Kings and Queens did that sort of thing. Whatever the reason for the string quartet’s prevalence in pop culture, there are some really great reasons to bring this gorgeous musical ensemble to your Oregon wedding!

String Quartet Wedding Songs

  1. String Quartets Look Really Gorgeous!

    So much better than the speakers and chords associated with recorded music. Also better than a keyboard. Am I biased? Maybe but seriously . . . violins and cellos are amazingly beautiful, hand-crafted pieces of artwork in their own right.

  2. String Quartets Create a Rich and Full Sound.

    If you’re having an outdoor wedding in Oregon with live music you want to make sure that people can hear the ensemble playing all of your favorite wedding music!

  3. Nobody Does Traditional Wedding Songs Like Canon in D Better

    Sorry bagpiper but pieces like Canon in D and Vivaldi’s Spring are just begging for 2 Violins, a Viola and Cello. It’s classic, elegant and totally fitting for Oregon’s natural beauty.

  4. String Quartet Beautiful Violin

  5. Pop Music and Contemporary Music Arranged for String Quartet is Awesome!

    Over the past 13 years of performing for weddings, we’ve amassed an insanely large collection of contemporary wedding songs arranged for our beloved string quartet. Check it out on our Repertoirepage. . . you won’t find a larger or more diverse list in the state of Oregon! You are definitely going to find something you love on this list for your wedding but if not, no worries: we include 2 custom new song arrangements with every wedding music reservation!

  6. String Quartets are Rare, Special and Definitely Worth the Splurge at a Wedding

    So there’s a longstanding discussion in my marriage about the point of flowers. My husband (who is awesome don’t get me wrong) doesn’t really get why buying something that’s already dead (aka a beautiful bouquet of roses) is a good idea–it’s already dead. It won’t last he says. But for me, I love the beauty of the roses while they are vibrant. It makes me feel special to have something like this in my home even though they won’t last forever. Same with a string quartet at your wedding–sure, it’s not going to “last” forever like your pictures but it is still definitely worth the splurge if it makes you feel special, celebrated and that this day is something that is truly memorable!

My Top Ten Favorite String Quartet Love Songs

  1. A Thousand Years from Twilight
  2. First Day of My Life by Bright Eyes
  3. All of Me by John Legend/Lindsey Stirling
  4. Canon in D by Pachelbel– an oldie but a goody!
  5. Sweet Child of Mine by Guns N Roses
  6. Falling Slowly from Once
  7. The Kiss from Last of the Mohicans
  8. Don’t Stop Believing by Journey
  9. Here Comes the Sun by the Beatles
  10. Can’t Take My Eyes Off You by Frankie Valli

Want to talk wedding music? Please drop us a line! We are all about personal connection and helping you find the right ensemble and the right musical style for your wedding day!

Gorgeous Songs to Walk Down the Aisle To

What’s your wedding processional style?

The songs to walk down the aisle to or “processional music,” as we call them in the wedding world, play a huge role in the overall vibe of your wedding ceremony!

As with many other details of modern weddings, you are free to choose processional music that is meaningful to you, whether or not it adheres to wedding tradition.  Sometimes however, it is hard to know if the song you love will play well for a wedding ceremony. Working with experienced musicians for a wedding can help each musical selection perfectly soundtrack the moment.  This processional music list represents our top ten most requested songs to walk down the aisle to in 2017. 

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Top 10 Trending Wedding Processionals

  • A Thousand Years — from “Twilight”
  • Stáralfur — Sigur Rós
  • In My Life — The Beatles
  • Canon in D “Pachelbel’s Canon” —Johannes Pachelbel
  • The Kiss –from “Last of the Mohicans”
  • Over the Rainbow — IZ
  • Storybook Love –from “The Princess Bride”
  • La Vie en Rose —Edith Piaf
  • Come What May —from “Moulin Rouge”
  • At Last — Etta James

Need more ideas?  Explore our entire wedding music repertoire or read on to explore and listen to these curated lists of gorgeous wedding processional music by genre: 

Acoustic / Celtic Wedding Processionals

  1. Sliding Down —Edgar Meyer
  2. Vows —Jeff Johnson & Brian Dunning from “Gangs of New York”
  3. Falling Slowly – from “Once”
  4. Short Trip Home — Edgar Meyer
  5. Vagabond’s Waltz — Jeff Victor
  6. Chan Chan  (instrumental version — Buena Vista Social Club
  7. Stars — Wendy Goodwin
  8. Copperline (instrumental version) –James Taylor
  9. You Raise Me Up — Celtic Women
  10. Old Pine (instrumental version)— Ben Howard
  11. Appalachia Waltz –Mark O’Connor, Yo-Yo Ma, Edgar Meyer

Pop / Contemporary Songs to Walk Down the Aisle To

  1. Here Comes the Sun –the Beatles
  2. Hallelujah — Pentatonix
  3. All of Me —John Legend & Lindsey Stirling
  4. Life in Technicolor — Coldplay
  5. Forever — Ben Harper
  6. Stand By Me — Ben E. King
  7. Marry Me —Train
  8. Such Great Heights –the Postal Service
  9. Sweet Child of Mine –Guns n Roses
  10. Can’t Help Falling in Love — Elvis
  11. Beautiful Day –U2

Traditional Wedding Processionals

  1. Bridal Chorus from “Lohengrin” — Wagner
  2. Canon in D “Pachelbel Canon” — Pachelbel
  3. Jesu Joy of Man’s Desiring — JS Bach
  4. Trumpet Voluntary — Clarke
  5. Water Music Suite — Handel

Favorite Classical Wedding Processionals

  1. Bach Cello Suite No. 1 — Bach
  2. Clair de Lune — Debussy
  3. String Quartet 2nd Movement “Assez Vif” — Ravel
  4. Lakme “Flower Duet” — Delibes
  5. Brandenburg Concerto No. 3 — Bach
  6. O Mio Bambino Caro — Puccini
  7. The Swan from  “Carnival of the Animals” –Saint-Saëns
  8. Ave Maria — Schubert
  9. Ave Maria —Bach
  10. Symphony No. 5 in E Minor, Op. 64 2nd Movement –Tchaikovsky

Religious/ Inspirational Songs to Walk Down the Aisle To

  1. Be Thou My Vision-– Traditional
  2. Soon –Hillsong United
  3. Your Love is Extravagant — Casting Crowns
  4. Come Thou Fount — Traditional
  5. You Raise Me Up — Josh Groban
  6. How Deep the Father’s Love for Us –– Stuart Townsend
  7. Ave Maria— Schubert
  8. Wedding Song “There is Love” –Peter, Paul and Mary
  9. The Prayer-– Andrea Boccelli & Céline Dion
  10.  Amazing Grace (My Chains are Gone) –Christ Tomlin

Wedding experts recently interviewed on Bridal Guide agree that you are free to choose music that is meaningful to you. We hope that these wedding processional song ideas will inspire you to find the wedding ceremony music that truly reflects your unique style!

Effesenden Wedding Ceremony Music is Getting Top Reviews!

We recently provided live wedding ceremony and cocktail hour music for a beautiful couple at NW Portland’s hip venue, Castaway. Our violin/guitar duo was the chosen ensemble and our clients selected an eclectic playlist ranging from the Beatles and James Taylor to Foo Fighters and Queen.

I always want to give our clients the best possible experience with their live wedding music but for this event, I knew the standards would be exceptionally high as our client was a graduate of the prestigious Cornell University School of Hotel Administration and a current rock star at Expedia– if anyone knows what good customer service looks like, it would be her; given that Cornell University’s Hotel School is the nation’s oldest and most respected Ivy League school of hospitality management.

We want the music at every wedding we play to be just what our brides and grooms envision and I’m so happy to share that our clients loved what we did. Check out their review on Wedding Wire!

Annie said…
“We had a fantastic experience with Wendy and Effesenden Music both in the lead-up to as well as on the day of our wedding. Wendy is very communicative, professional, and flexible, and she and her team are incredibly talented. With an extensive repertoire and willingness to accommodate custom music selections, Effesenden has such a diverse offering (and rock-star musicians), making for a beautiful and customized day-of experience. Unequivocally better than any DJ or recording. Thank you again for making our wedding day so special!”

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Storytelling with Strings– Our Interview on Best Wedding Oregon

We are so excited this week to be chosen to represent Portland’s wedding musician community by Best Wedding Oregon for a spot about wedding ceremony music. You can check out the full article here.

They had great questions for us about the role that live ceremony music plays in enhancing a wedding celebration.  They also allowed us to share some important tips that we wish more brides and grooms were aware of.  Here’s a recap of a few of those bits of advice:

  1.  Choose your ceremony musicians 8-12 months ahead of your wedding date, especially if you have one of those popular summer Saturday weddings.  You’ll ensure that you get the best musicians and that they have time to properly prepare your wedding music selections– especially if you’re opting for something customized like pop strings.
  2. Many industry resources advise brides and grooms to scout their ensemble by going to hear them live.  This advice is great for a band but really doesn’t apply well for a string quartet.  Oh how we wish that every club in Portland was featuring 2 violins, a viola and a cello every night performing classical, jazz and contemporary music on strings but the reality is that those venues don’t really exist.

    If you want to see our musicians in action, you’ll need to check out ensembles like the Oregon Symphony, Ballet, Opera etc but the best way to really get a feel for what wedding ceremony musicians might sound like at your event is to listen to their sample material and/or watch their videos.  We try to be really transparent about what you get by posting as much live recording and video footage as possible so you really get a sense of what it would sound like live at your wedding or event!

We have been involved with the Portland wedding industry since 2002 as well as interacting with national organizations such as Style Me Pretty, The Knot, Wedding Wire, and JuneBug weddings. We really like Best Wedding Oregon’s approach of research based information. Normally vendors like us are solicited to purchase advertising and then rely on customer reviews to fill out the picture as far as what our brides and grooms can expect. Best Wedding Oregon took the time to learn about our company and in turn hopefully provide valuable advice for brides and grooms looking for live wedding ceremony music– whether they choose to work with Effesenden Music or another company. Thanks Best Wedding Oregon for checking out our music and giving us a chance to talk about what we love: providing customized live music for weddings and events in our beautiful city of Portland, Oregon!

Loving People Through Live Music

I started playing for weddings long before I established Effesenden Music.  One of the first weddings I played was as a young high school student at the beautiful Willamette Valley vineyards near Salem, Oregon.  It was very windy and the little metal folding music stand I was using blew over during the prelude– music went everywhere!  Then for the recessional, the guests had been given these wax paper envelopes which contained freeze dried butterflies which were supposed to, when opened, spring to life and flutter gently out of their slumber, surrounding the happy couple with beautiful, brightly covered wings.  Instead, these butterflies were like Snow White without the kiss.  The envelopes were opened. . . .nothing happened.  When guests tried to dislodge them, they just dropped stone dead to the ground.  Talk about not a good way to start things off… but then, as my husband and I well know, sometimes the epic fails end up being the best stories that we are still laughing about years later.

While still in college, I was asked to play in a string quartet for weddings. We would ride around in this windowless white van that sort of had the serial killer vibe– there weren’t even seats in the back, just musicians rolling around with the rest of the gear from one wedding to the next.  Sometimes the other violinist was super drunk but he still managed to play really well in tune.  I don’t know how!  Sometimes we would have three weddings in one day– luckily traffic wasn’t as bad back then as it is now in the metro area!  Everyone has their crazy college stories and many of my fellow musicians went on to have incredible careers but I knew that when I started Effesenden Music, I really wanted to do things differently.  I wanted to place my focus on relationships, kindness, enthusiasm, quality and attention to detail.

Here are eight of my favorite wedding memories as the owner of Effesenden Music.

  1.  Performing for a wedding reception with violin, guitar and cello, the groom’s 90 year old grandfather came up to say hello.  He then proceeded to pull a harmonica out of the pocket of his plaid suit coat and asked if he might join in for a set.
  2. Playing Canon in D for that critical moment of the bride’s procession at a gorgeous outdoor venue in Clackamas.  Suddenly, A spider dropped from my hair and began repelling down towards my violin.  I HATE bugs but I kept playing.  I am self controlled when I need to be!
  3. The night my guitarist, Nate and I had played for the ceremony live but stayed to provide DJ services for the reception at the Abernethy Center in Oregon City.  As we were starting to pack up our gear, amidst the black coiled sound cables, was a black coiled LIVE snake.  SO glad I didn’t pick it up and bring it home.
  4. I’ve played violin since age three but a few years ago, I learned to play the Ukulele for a wedding that needed it.  Because of this, I was able to help a young boy tune his ukulele to perform a special piece for his dad, the groom.  I am not a great ukulele player by any means but it was great to be able to have the skills to help out.  That same night, on my way to the venue I accidentally took a route that put me in the path of the infamous Portland naked bike ride.  GPS doesn’t warn about things like that!
  5.  When our string quartet performed for a stunning wedding ceremony and reception in Maui, Hawaii, we discovered that a number of the guests were professional hockey players.  I’ve never seen a hockey game in my life but our Canadian born cellist was absolutely beside himself.
  6. Playing solo violin for a wedding ceremony at a private home in Sellwood.   The catch was that none of the guests knew they were coming to a wedding–they though their friends were just throwing a party!  I love seeing community in action.
  7. When I broke my pinkie toe on my music stand- I never forgot about the tipping metal stand of my teenage years and bought a super heavy stand that would withstand gale force winds, however, my fellow musicians and I nicknamed it the “Stand of Death.”  Why?  Because every time I would use it, there would be an injury.
  8. The ongoing opportunity to work with so many awesome musicians who I love and admire.  The daily challenge of taking a song that maybe was never meant for strings and finding a way to create an arrangement that makes my clients smile.

 

Live Music for Outdoor Weddings: How to Plan for Oregon’s Unpredictable Weather

So far this year, our outdoor wedding musical adventures in beautiful Oregon have included a thunder and hail storm, soft sneaky rain that kept appearing and disappearing prior to the ceremony—just toying with us, 90 degree heat and 54 degree temps with periodic downpours intermixed.  There were also a few of those amazing Oregon summer days that we try to keep secret from the rest of the country so we can maintain our reputation for being a rainy, flannel wearing kind of place.

We at Effesenden Music LOVE your unique venue ideas.  We are all for bringing beautiful musical atmosphere to match your gorgeous outdoor venue and with just a little forethought, you can ensure that your music will be great no matter what Mother Nature decides to present on the big day.

Here I was in mid May, rocking my black winter scarf and down vest.  During the prelude and ceremony, it kept raining on and off so we were under shelter but then the sun came out and created the most beautiful natural lighting so we were able to setup al fresco for the cocktail hour.

Effesenden Performing at Bridal Veil Lakes
Photo Credit: Caressa Rogers Photography

If rain is not a concern, setting the musicians up under the shade of a tree is usually totally adequate to keep instruments safe and music sounding awesome.  If you’re dealing with a drizzly forecast or epic summer heat, here are some tips on how to ensure that your music will not be negatively impacted by the elements.

What’s the big deal about violins in the rain?

Okay Lindsey Stirling, seems able to play her violin in a pirate costume surrounded by Bellagio-like fountains and Cirq du Soleil worthy dancers… but take a close look at that fiddle:  my soon to be blissfully wedded friends, it is a specially made electric violin.  Now if you’re interested in this type of musical performance at your wedding, let’s chat.  I really like the guy with the harpoon. . . but assuming you’re thinking of more like professional musicians dressed in classy black and performing beautiful music for you and your guest to enjoy for prelude, processional and cocktail hour please read on about how to make music possible outdoors even in um…challenging weather.

What happens to a violin or cello if it gets wet?

Kennedy Violins has a wonderful blog post you can check out to get the full details.  In a nutshell, wood is porous and if the wood of an instrument absorbs water, it can expand causing major damage like warping and cracking.  (Shudder.  This is R rated stuff for a string player to even think about!)… and to put it simply, thousands of dollars of damage or possibly irreparable damage can be caused to instruments that are often hundreds of years old.  You don’t want that bad juju happening at your wedding!

Okay but it’s sunny!  Not a cloud in the sky— so I’m good right?

Unfortunately direct sunshine and heat can do serious damage as well if temperatures are hot.  Remember the whole porous thing… if the wood gets direct sunlight and high temperatures, it can shrink those pores and again cause cracking, warping and discoloration.  All this stuff that costs a lot of money and a lot of worry to repair.

This is not about high maintenance vendors trying to ruin your day, but rather that we really really want to play for you and make it awesome and share all the music we’ve prepared just for you.

Okay but lets say you are an evil person who does not care about other people’s prized musical instruments… why does it still matter to you?

Because when instruments get exposed to weather extremes, they go out of tune.  They sound bad.  They sound like this guy:

SO What to do?

If we’re talking rain, and you are not planning to tent the ceremony area for your guests, consider renting or purchasing a 10×10 open-sided canopy tent and setting up your musicians to the side or behind the guests. The music will still sound great. The tent won’t inhibit the view or pictures if positioned behind and your musicians can concentrate on beautifully performing all of those songs you carefully selected.

Here’s a video of our String Trio and Guitarist performing on a 90 degree+ day at the Resort at the Mountain in Welches.  The elegance of the acoustic instruments and more importantly, the gorgeous sounds they create more than make up for a little infrastructure amidst the natural beauty.

What type of tent should I get?

This tent  pictured below from Costco sells for just $149.50 and would be totally adequate for providing shelter for your live music if needed. Ask around too… often there is someone on your guest list who already owns one and would be happy to help out!

Sample Canopy Tent for Musicians

You should plan on having a tent for the musicians even if your backup rain plan involves moving to an indoor area. Why? Because many times, if you’re just seeing a little bit of drizzle, you’re going to want to go ahead with your original plan.  Your guests can snuggle under umbrellas or pull out a jacket but the musicians are then left with the problem of not having a way to protect their instruments from that precipitation.

A word of caution, many people think of possibly using a circular bistro umbrella (such as the one pictured below).  They look really classy but the problem is that they do not provide enough shelter for more than maybe a soloist.  The central base takes up the most sheltered area of the umbrella.  What’s worse is that I have personally seen them catch wind and tip over on more than one occasion, especially for Gorge weddings:  there’s a reason that Kite Boarding and Wind Surfing are so popular around here!  This is not only a liability for the musicians but for your guests as well!

Patio Umbrella

 

Closing Thoughts

Most Oregonians really pride themselves on being creative and undaunted by crazy weather.  When we accept the responsibility and privilege of providing the live music for your wedding, we want to absolutely ensure that things go as smoothly as possible.  By taking just a few precautionary steps, you can relax in the confidence that live music is possible just about anywhere you can imagine getting married in this beautiful state!

Our Acoustic Duo at the Lovely McMenamins Edgefield!

We love performing for events at the McMenamins Edgefield!   This popular Portland area venue combines the quintessential Portland quirkiness with our amazing Pacific NW natural beauty.  On Friday, we stayed cool in the shade of the meadow next to Blackberry Hall as our Acoustic Duo performed for an utterly delightful wedding of some of the kindest, sweetest clients we’ve ever interfaced with.  And boy, these days with everything going on in our world, we need a little more nice-ness!  Pay it forward, pass it on. . . just be nice, whatever… thank you friends for allowing us to play and sing for your special day!

Now then, the music was a great blend of acoustic selections– prelude featuring Irish and Americana music + some super classic recognizable melodies like In My Life by the Beatles.

For the bridesmaids and groomsmen’s entrance we sang Stand By Me.  The bride entered to Canon in D and their adorable recessional selection was Walking on Sunshine.

In case you missed this wedding, here are some links from a live recording we made at the event.

Prelude:

In My Life

Something in Blue (an original piece by Wendy Goodwin and Nolan Staples)

Ceremony:

Stand By Me (Bridesmaids, Flower Girl and Ring Bearer)

Canon in D (Bride’s Entrance)

 

 

 

 

Effesenden Music Wedding featured in Junebug Weddings

We at Effesenden Music are fiercely proud of the natural beauty of our Pacific NW home.  It is always so cool when we get to work with couples from out of state who choose to celebrate their wedding day in our beautiful Columbia Gorge!  Danielle and Ernie are a gorgeous couple, incredibly sweet and obviously very adventurous:  the “hike” to the ceremony site was something I’d normally be donning my backpacking boots for thanks to a seriously crazy rain and hail storm that arrived just before the ceremony.   Still, we managed to make our way up the trail to this hobbit-like venue and provide music for Danielle’s entrance.  We don’t know how she did it in those shoes and without a speck of dirt on her stunning gown!

Also love it when we find ourselves featured on the wedding style blog Junebug Weddings. Though the musicians often are not pictured since our role is about the sound versus the look, we feel honored to be in such chic and creative company.

A beautiful Columbia Gorge Elopement Ceremony
Photo credit Jamie Jones Photography

Wedding Music Trends for 2017

Two weeks ago Effesenden Music’s acoustic duo performed for an awesome wedding at Bridal Veil Lakes. Though Mother Nature decided to bestow buckets of Oregon spring rain on that Sunday afternoon, a spirit of joy and authenticity prevailed as the happy couple, their bridal party, guests and our duo stayed dry under canopy tents that didn’t diminish the gorgeous lake and forest view.

This wedding is representative of some really great trends we’re noticing in 2017 weddings and how they impact live ceremony and cocktail hour music.

1. Wedding style and choices are made by couples instead of one person.

In our case since we offer live music, it’s something that almost everyone has their preferences about so I’m so glad to see both partners sharing their ideas and favorite songs. This most recent wedding featured for processional, the theme song from the classic 80s Anne of Green Gables show (the bride’s pick)! For the groom, we wrote a custom arrangement of the theme from Indiana Jones.

2. Game of Thrones music.
I . . . don’t know . . .but it’s SO fun to play!

Okay, maybe I DO know. People don’t really get married anymore because it’s the “thing responsible people do.” It’s all about finding someone to share a journey with and I think this theme music, like many other movie soundtracks that have become classics, really captures that spirit of adventure!

3. Many couples want a more relaxing, laid back ambiance as guests arrive.
From ideas like party games to pre-wedding beverages to the fact that I frequently see members of the bridal party mingling with guests before the ceremony begins, there seems to be a lot less emphasis on the formality and structure that one used to see at a wedding ceremony. Music choices for Prelude can do a lot to set and enhance a relaxing vibe. Some of my favorite prelude music choices include:

Classic Jazz Standards

  • What a Wonderful World
  • When I Fall in Love
  • My Romance

Pop Ballads and Classics

  • The Way I Am by Ingrid Michaelson
  • Don’t Know Why by Norah Jones
  • You Are the Sunshine of My Life by Stevie Wonder
  • Stand By Me
  • Can’t Help Falling in Love
  • If I Fell by the Beatles

Celtic and Bluegrass Ballads
While most people don’t recognize specific names of fiddle tunes like Star of the County Down or Banish Misfortune, they love the vibe and sound of Irish music. I think interestingly this may have become popular back when Titanic came out and has just never dissipated!

What about you? Where are you getting your ideas for your wedding ceremony music? As a guest at other weddings, what makes you feel relaxed and happy?